2014-03-11 Ron W. Nikkel (Prison Fellowship International)
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Brothers in Arms
Who
do you think you are!
Tearing us all apart
Where did you think you could go?
'Cause everyone already knows . . .
You got the world on it's knees
You're taking all that you please
You want more
But you'll get nothing from me
You're like the burden we bear
You're all the hate that we share
You want more
But you'll get nothing from me
But enemies!
(From “Enemies” by Shinedown)
Relationships can be difficult.
Have you ever experienced a relationship turning toxic? Have you
experienced the pain of friendship turning bitter and slipping into rivalry and
enmity?
The streets and prisons of the world are brimming with twisted stories of broken
relationships, painful divorce, betrayal, physical violence, sexual abuse, and
murder involving friends and family members. We live in a world where
toxic relationships erupt in enmity between families, community factions,
political parties, tribes and races, and nations. But every once in awhile
we see a great reversal, in which bitter enemies are somehow able to cross
through the mire of hatred and anger between them into friendship.
During a visit to the Philippines during the regime of Ferdinand Marcos I met
two men who had every reason in the world to detest and even hate each other.
They were on opposite sides of a volatile political conflict. Roger was a
young bombastic political revolutionary intent on overthrowing the Marcos
government. In today’s environment he would have been labeled a
terrorist, an enemy of the state. Vicente, on the other hand, was a
retired military general who was an ally of the President. He was feared
as a strict disciplinarian, a tough stern man to be reckoned with.
Brigadier General Raval was as loyal to the Marcos regime as Roger was
passionate in the cause of Maoist revolution.
Shortly before increasingly beleaguered Philippine President Marcos declared
martial law in 1972, he ordered General Raval out of retirement and appointed
him as National Prisons Director. His approach to the prisons was the same
as his tough approach to military discipline and it did not take long for
General Raval to become feared by prison guards and inmates alike. One
report stated that the mere sight of his service vehicle approaching a prison
was fearsome, everyone would run for cover. No one was exempted from his
temperament. With the imposition of martial law the prisons were becoming
increasingly overcrowded. Hundreds of student protesters and
revolutionaries were captured, detained and imprisoned – among them the
outspoken and incendiary communist agitator known as Roger “Bomba” Arienda.
Sentenced to a twelve year prison term on weapons charges, Roger found himself
in the dark dank confines of New Bilibid, the most maximum security prison
inside the vast Muntinlupa prison compound outside of Manila. Isolated,
completely deprived of freedom, and unable to help in the revolution against the
enemies of his people Roger was as bored as he was angry. One day when he
was allowed into the small prison library he spotted a little red book with
black lettering. His heart leapt within him as he tucked it under his
shirt, relishing the thought of reading the little red book of revolutionary
quotations by Chairman Mao.
Back in his cell he eagerly opened the book and to his utter chagrin found that
the little red book was not by Chairman Mao but the Gospels of Jesus Christ.
He threw it across his cell in disgust. However, as boredom overtook him
he eventually picked it up and began reading about Jesus and a revolutionary way
that was completely opposite to everything he had believed. It was the
revolutionary path of forgiving enemies instead of killing them as communism had
taught. Roger could not believe what he was reading about the power of
love, mercy, forgiveness, and reconciliation instead of the tactics of terror
and violence which had defined his life.
As he continued reading a sense of peace and tranquility began edging out the
deep anger, resentment and loneliness in his heart. Roger realized that
the tactics of hatred and conflict that he had pursued as the solution for his
country would only turn the tables and perpetuate hatred and conflict. By
contrast, the revolutionary way of Jesus was actually far more revolutionary
than the ideals and tactics of Maoist communism. Rogers heart turned from
Mao to Jesus and he began reaching out to his former enemies, among them General
Raval the Marcos ally and head of prisons. And ever the incendiary
agitator, Roger began to champion the revolutionary way of Jesus among his
fellow prisoners.
Three years following Rogers’ release from prison I went to Manila to meet
him. I’d heard his story but wanted to meet him for myself and to
connect with his growing prison outreach. When Roger met me at the airport
he told me his gripping story; he had not lost any of his revolutionary fervor.
“Now there is someone else I want you to meet,” he said as we drove
through the unbelievably congested streets into the city, “I want you to meet
my board chairman – General Raval – we’re on the same side now.”
And when we met – the stern Brigadier General who was part of the Marcos
regime, Roger a communist agitator who now followed Jesus – they called each
other brother, and embraced.
“How improbable and radical is that,” I thought to myself. A lot of
people think that religion is a panacea and that Christianity is for wimps.
But as I watched Roger and the General that day, and saw the profound impact
that their new friendship was having on others on both sides of the conflict.
I also saw how following Jesus in the revolutionary way of loving and embracing
ones’ enemies is far more difficult and courageous than following the normal
instincts of hatred and violence and retaliation. It is so easy for
friends and brothers to become enemies who bare their arms against each other
– it is so much more difficult for enemies to lay down their arms and embrace
each other as friends and brothers. But that is the revolutionary way of
Jesus.
You
know you have been taught,
“An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.”
But I tell you
not to try to get even with a person who has done something to you.
When someone slaps your right cheek,
turn and let that person slap your other cheek.
If someone sues you for your shirt,
give up your coat as well…
You have heard people say,
“Love your neighbors and hate your enemies.”
But I tell you
to love your enemies
and pray for anyone who mistreats you.
(Jesus – Matthew 5:38-44 CEVUS)
© by Ronald W. Nikkel - article may be reprinted with acknowledgment